Have you ever found yourself scrolling on your phone or switching tasks, even when you don’t really want to?
That’s your brain at work looking for a quick escape.
Our brains are wired to avoid discomfort and boredom.
When things feel stressful, overwhelming, or even just a bit dull, distraction becomes a tempting way to feel better fast.
Distraction feels like a mini break.
When you get distracted, your brain gets a quick hit of relief. It’s like a brief vacation from hard thoughts or tough feelings.
But here’s the catch: the relief is only temporary.
The real issues usually come back, sometimes stronger.
Why does this happen?
Your brain is always balancing two things:
The need to focus on what matters
The desire to avoid pain or discomfort
When the hard stuff shows up, distraction can feel like the easier choice.
How to gently manage this craving
Instead of fighting distraction or feeling guilty, try this:
Notice when you want to escape.
Pause.
Ask yourself, What am I really feeling right now?
Sometimes just naming what’s going on inside helps the urge fade.
Your brain isn’t trying to trick you it’s just trying to protect you.
Understanding this is the first step to taking back control.
Will try and remember to do this👍
I say to myself stop overthinking and I start Humming a song 🎵